Time sensitive sex strategies

Here's how to make the most of the time you have!

WIN THE SACK RACE

Sex is like running. Jog the 100-yard dash and you'll come in last; sprint through the first mile of a marathon and you'll go limp sooner or later. "You really have to pace yourself," says Beverly Whipple, Ph.D., secretary general of the World Association for Sexual Health. "Otherwise, everybody loses."

YOU HAVE: 5 MINUTES

Your strategy: Skip the schedule

She loves quickies for the spontaneity. You love them because they're like SportsCenter: all highlight, no filler. Take her lead, says Tara Roth Madden, author of Romance on the Run. "It can't be just one more thing on my to-do list," she says. If you're worried she'll think you're quick on the trigger, tell her it's just a preview.

YOU HAVE: 30 MINUTES

Your strategy: Pass the baton

"Spend extra time focusing on each other's body and your intercourse will be more action-packed," says sexologist Carol Queen, Ph.D., author of Exhibitionism for the Shy. You're working toward a climax. She suggests kisses and gentle strokes in the sensitive nooks where the body bends, such as the wrists, the crooks of the elbows, and the backs of the knees. Nerves can predict where you're headed if you move in a straight line, so use a zigzag stroke instead.

YOU HAVE: 1 HOUR

Your strategy: Warm up longer

Awaken your partner's erogenous zones all over her body by giving her a 20-minute massage. You'll both get a happy ending. "This isn't a health club," Queen says. "Keep her focused on the erotic nature of the massage, not the relaxing, sleep-inducing side of it." Start with her back, then ask her to roll over so you can work your way toward her breasts and clitoris. And whatever you do, don't go all shiatsu on her breasts. A gentle, firm touch will suffice.

YOU HAVE: ALL NIGHT

Your strategy: Turn tricks

There are two ways to last all night. In tantric sex, you separate your orgasm from ejaculation. "Around 80 percent of men can do this after 3 months of training," says psychologist and sexologist Barnaby Barratt, Ph.D., author of Sexual Health and Erotic Freedom. Too New Age? Separate ejaculation from bedtime. The average postorgasm limp period in 30-year-olds is about half an hour. While you're waiting, try some new tricks. "It's all about variety," says Amy, 22. "Too much of one thing gets boring, even if that one thing is very good."

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The moves to get her there in record time

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Exploring your sexuality can be a dead end if you don't keep one destination in mind: her happiness.


THE DOWNWARD DOG

The purpose: Allows for deeper thrusts

How it works: She's facedown on the bed, hips raised

The benefit: This position creates a snug fit, "making you feel larger," says Rebecca Rosenblat, a sex therapist and the author of Seducing Your Man. It also puts pressure on the hard-to-reach pleasure zones just behind her vagina. To last longer, try "shallow thrusting and deep breathing," advises April Masini, author of Date out of Your League. "Exhale with each thrust."
Hint: Don't be a battering ram. "Move your hips from side to side, too," says Diana Wiley, Ph.D., a sex therapist.



THE FACE-OFF

The purpose: Makes height differences disappear

How it works: You sit on a chair or the edge of a bed, she faces you on your lap.

The benefit: Greater flexibility. "She can easily control the angle and depth of entry," says Wiley, "and this is a good way for a man to learn what sort of rhythm his partner prefers." Sitting is also great for marathon lovemaking because "no one has to worry about their legs or arms giving out on them," says Rosenblat.
Hint: Your hands can roam; take advantage of the 8,000 nerves of the clitoris -- or the millions elsewhere on her body.



THE PRETZEL

The purpose: Blends the doggy and missionary styles

How it works: She lies on her left side. You kneel between her legs, curling her right leg around your right side and straddling her left leg. Use your hands to bring her toward you.

The benefit: The deeper penetration of doggy-style sex, without the loss of face-to-face contact. Also, ergonomics: "A lot of women can’t stand doggy-style, because it hurts their backs," says Rosenblat.
Hint: Add manual stimulation. Your right arm is perfectly positioned to tuck under her right leg to lend a helping hand. "That's a can't-miss combination."



THE SHOULDER HOLDER

The purpose: Targets her G-spot, makes you feel bigger

How it works: She rests both legs on one of your shoulders.

The benefit: "Any position in which a woman raises her legs narrows the vagina," says Rosenblat. Slide her feet down to your chest, one foot on each of your pectoral muscles, and start her in a rocking side-to-side or up-and-down motion. She's in a perfect position to control how you stimulate her G-spot.
Hint: Keep your sensors tuned: "If she's pushing a body part into you, she digs the position," Rosenblat says. "If she's pulling back, try something else."



THE COWGIRL'S HELPER

The purpose: Puts her in control, lets you lend a helping hand

How it works: She squats on top, raising and lowering herself with her thighs. You support her by holding her hips and rising to meet each thrust.

The benefit: She'll appreciate your ceding the sexual remote control. "This move allows her to choose between shallow and deep thrusting," says Rosenblat. "Shallow will stimulate the front third of her vagina, the most sensitive part."
Hint: It takes strong thighs for her to maintain this position, so use your arms to help assume some of the heavy lifting.



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